Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Check out our budget plan!

Before Brent and I got married we discussed money and finances a lot. We wanted to be prepared and have a plan. We didn't want it to be a terrible thing for us.
I came up with an idea (Brent even claims it was mine) that the money that we would be making the current month would be for the budget for the next month. Then we wouldn't be living pay check to pay check or even month to month. The bills that we have to pay this current month we already have the money for from last month.

Brent loves to budget and figure out our finances. We have a Google share document so that we both can log into it and see our budget. Also we update it to show what we have spent in our budget through out the month so we can track our spending. In the document we can make new ones so that we can save the budget every month to look back through the year at our expenses. 
I admit that its not fun for me like it is for Brent, so I don't pay as much attention to it as I should. But it is so great that we can both be on the same page about it all.

We share bank accounts even the month before we were married we joined our accounts. This shows our trust and our commitment to being one together. For other people this doesn't work. I am glad that we found what works for us from the start.





In our budget we have categories and from last months pay how much we can use in each.

1. Starting with tithing. We take that out the minute we get our pay checks and set it aside. Not even usable because we agree we won't spend that no matter what.

2. Our Rent. Nice to have a set amount every month and our utilities included. If they were not we use to guess how much knowing it was a give and take.

3. Insurance. Our car, and renters insurance. Which has always been the same for us. We can plan on what we are going to set aside in this category.

4.Auto fuel and maintenance. We try and plan how much for fuel and what maintenance we are going to need. We all know that can't always be planned though so if their is ever a surprise repair we take it from savings. The oil changes and what we can plan for is what is here along with what we think we will pay for fuel estimating from previous months. Right now we have $230.00 in this category.

5.Groceries. This we have estimated that its about $100 per person to feed for a month. We have $200 here each month for the two of us. I try to be the best at this and have a meal plan for the month and we shop according to that. and what ever else savings I can get.

6.Gifts. This varies depending on the time of year of course we try to put more here during the holidays. Our birthdays are near the holidays too. but we try to put a little here each month even if its in the middle of summer just in case because Brent knows I like to spend on others sometimes.

7. Clothing. If it was up to Brent he wouldn't put anything in this category. But I like cloths too much. Sometimes I spend the money here and sometimes I don't. I try not to but once in a while I buy something. What we don't spend goes to savings.

8.Phone. this is a set amount we pay each month great to plan for.

9.Dental and Medical. We put a little here each month to save for when we will be in the need of this which we have been here and there.

10. Dating and Entertainment. This is where we like to over spend and we try so hard not to. Dating sometimes can suddenly be a $100 here and there if you are not careful. Lately we have been trying to plan out our dates and what we do for fun so that we are not spending a lot.

11. Micellaneous. Some times we need money for things we don't know what category they fall into so we have this just in case. If we don't use it te extra goes into savings. 

12. We also have one called Debt to help us keep and stay out of it! 

13.  Church category is for anything we need for church. Materials, garments, fhe activities ect. And our fast offerings. This is never too big though. 

The last category is we give each of us an allowance. About $25 per month. We try not to spend it all also. This is for us to spend however we want. If Brent forgets to pack dinner he uses this or if I am wanting something to do crafts with I take it from this. 


After the categories we have a money market account. We decide on depending how much money we have left over we will set some aside in this account. We use this for travel and camping. Something that we both love and want to make a priority in our lives. It takes money to travel so we have planned and prepared for it this way. (also my idea lol)
Its great! When we went on our 1st anniversary cruise and trip we had all the money already set aside and ready for the fun!

Of course we also have our savings account. We put every last penny we did not use in our categories to set a side here. This we use if we have to make a big purchase usually and in case of emergencies. We also have our money market if their is ever an emergency. So far with this money we have bought a car, paid off schooling, and saving for Brents surgery this December things like that.

This is what works for us! Let us know if you like this idea and what works for you! 



Monday, August 11, 2014

The Family Book.

I came up with the idea to have a "family book"
I used a composition book. I painted it and decorated it. In it we will keep family dates, records, family history, about each person, goals, motto, mission statement, letter to future kids, places we have lived, places we have gone on family trips to, what we believe and what is important to our family. 
I am way too excited about this! 
We are still working on the family mission statement and some pages.
When we are finished I will post them here.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

I Am A Mormon!!

No I will not shove my beliefs down your throat.
Yes I love each and every one of you! Just as God does!
No I am not perfect!
Yes in God one day I can become perfect.
No I do not drink, smoke, drink coffee, or shop on Sunday.
Yes I do sin differently then you.
No I do not judge, I love!
Yes life is hard we all make mistakes!
Yes I try my best to follow all of Gods commandments.
and Yes I sometimes fail.
No I do not give up,
I will endure to the end!
and Yes I would love if every one was able to find this happiness that I have found in the mormon church.
For I want you to be happy.

I have had a lot on my mind.. and I had my mind made up I would not say anything for I didn't want to say the wrong thing and offend any one.
I just need to get it out and off my chest though.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has been in the news a lot lately for its views on same sex marriage and the women in the priesthood.
No matter any ones choices I do not love any one less!
However, my choices might not be the same choices.
What I believe is right may not be the same.
I am not positive how it will all work out in Heaven, I do have faith that God loves us all and wants the best for us!
The Church I belong to is ran by Jesus Christ and God himself. They give us commandments to follow because that is what is best for us to be able to be happiest and able to get through our trials.
Not to limit us and make anything harder.
I will follow the Prophet of the church and I will follow God.
I have faith in love and peace.
I feel the most love and peace on Sundays taking the sacrament, on a Saturday at the temple, serving Gods children, and in the lords work.
That is what makes me feel safe, comforted, loved, and serenity.
I know that I feel the Holy Spirit in my heart and soul.
Tears of joy are poof of that.
Hymns sooth me and sing out my testimony.
For I love the Savior with all my heart and want to become Christ like!

Yes I am a Mormon, a Latter Day Saint of the Church of Jesus Christ.
and Yes I believe it with all my heart!

I hate when the church is attacked and when the members lash back out. Breaks my heart. For we just really need love in the world and lots of it.

(I know this probably was my random thought of testimony but I needed it off my chest)

I love you!!

If you want to learn about the true teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints please got to www.lds.org

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Our Year Together

This year we have...

States we set foot in:
Arizona, Nevada, Idaho and accidentally Wyoming once.

Restaurants we loved:
Italian Village, Rickenbockers, Olive Garden, Roosters, Rodizio, Spaghetti Factory, and more.

Movies we saw in theater:
The Book Thief, Thor the Dark World, Monsters University, Saving Mr. Banks, Despicable Me 2,

Things we did and happened:
Honey mooned to the Grand canyon, went to sisters graduation, went on our first camping trip to Bear Lake, went camping on whim at Smith and Morehouse, had a disastrous time at our first place, Peanut passed away, went to the Brazilian festival, went to Park City, went ice skating at the galivian center, went to Lava Hot Springs, went to NASCAR in Las Vegas, went to see Nanny and Papa, went to the Olympic trials at Deer Valley, spent the Holidays with all our families, got new jobs, passed more classes at Weber State, I spent our first Christmas sick, we moved into a new home, called as ward missionaries, cooked up lots of new dinners, sang in the ward choir, taught temple prep, made new friends, Brent crashed my car, I got a new car, and so much more!

5/30/2013-2014


 To Celebrate our One Year we went on a Cruise from Miami, Florida to Key West and Cozumel, Mexico! 
It was Brents first Cruise and we enjoyed ourselves a lot! 
We got to see the Southern most point of the US in Key West! What a super cool place we will for sure be going back there!
In Cozumel we got to see Mayan ruins that was super neat to hear the stories of them! We saw the poverty there and experienced how Mexico is. 
On the ship we of course had to eat a lot of food and try new things! We danced a lot! We love dancing! We met new friends! We went to the activities and shows! 
We Laughed and had a really good time! 
Back in Miami we got to stay a couple more nights so first off we went to the Everglades and saw lots of gators that was so neat! We took a speed boat tour as the gators swam next to us! Best of all there was turtles too! Brent got to hold a baby alligator! This was the day of our anniversary.
When we got back we went to rent a car and we got a cute black VW bug! That was fun to drive around and Brent let me drive in the Miami traffic and the heat was playing... it was crazy! 
We went and spent most of the time in South Beach. The ocean was sooo warm! 
I love to fly and travel and see all that I can in the short time I am at a place too much fun! 




For the first anniversary you are suppose to give paper as the gift. So Brent got me a book by my favorite author The Four Doors by Richard Paul Evans and I gave him Following Christ the 2nd book in one that he had been reading and enjoying. 



We brought a piece of our wedding cake with us on the plane to eat a little on our anniversary so we ate it and it was good! Banana mmmm! 

This Trip was only our first for many anniversary trips to come!! 

For the next year to come our goals are:
Brent and I to work our way more into our Degrees and finish two more semesters. To meet Brents brother when he comes home from his mission. Many temple trips. And most importantly enjoy each others love for that always is growing and I couldn't l've some one more! He is my best friend and marrying him was the best things I have ever done! 

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Our Love Story

Our Story 

6/5/12 He saw Her
9/22/12 First Date Hike together
10/23/12 They knew it was everlasting Love
12/25/12 He asked The question
5/30/13 They finally got married for all time and eternity!









I feel accomplished!

I am just going to toot my horn and say I have done it! I have passed math 1010 at Weber State!
It was not an easy accomplishment. Since from the time I could remember I have struggled in math. It has not come easy for me. I have had to work hard at it and get a lot of help. This was my 6th semester at Weber. The 5 before were spent in underdevelopment math. I was just so tired and stressed. I wanted to be able to passed it the first semester I took 1010. I got a lot of help from Brent and worked the hardest I could. I had Brent push me and help me anyway that he could.
It's a big relief and it's still settling in that I did it!


Monday, April 14, 2014

Love Makes a House a Home


  

We have moved to VanBuren!
We are so excited about this move! We are in a basement of the house of my visiting teacher, with her husband and two little boys. They are so good to us. It is a great situation. We are so blessed to be here! It is everything we need at this point in our lives! I took pride and joy into decorating it as we unpacked.


This month of April after the move we enjoyed General Conference weekend. Made lots of yummy food! A Brazilian meal and treats for the weekend! We have been enjoying the sunshine and spring flowers, and rain storms. April showers bring May flowers!
This week and next we are stressed to the max for finals week! I am trying and praying so hard to pass my last two math classes! When it happens I will have to post about my accomplishment because it will be! It has been a struggle and I have worked hard to be where I am!

I love Easter Sunday for I love my Savior and his atoning sacrifice that I may be cleansed and one day rise up as he did. The love I have for my Redeemer is overwhelming!
So thankful to be apart of His church here on Earth. To have Temples to do work of those wanting to come unto Him. So thankful for my covenants and that I may just endure to be with Him and my Heavenly Father once again. Along side my forever loving family. So thankful for the Holy Spirit to guide me and to fill my heart each day of happiness. So thankful to be able to kneel in prayer and offer up my whole heart to Him.
I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I know who I am. I know Gods plan.

I love filling our home with our testimony. I cannot wait to bring His children into our family to teach and love with the pure love of Him.

I am also glad that March is over... What hard memories. There is not a day that I do not think about my three Angels and the love that I have for them. I think about all that they have taught me a lot. They have helped me grow into the women I am and I love that! I love that I still see them in my life. The tears come and go depending on the mood. I only know that I miss them so much because I love them so much. The overwhelming that I have for the Savior I have for my family, the pure love of Christ.